Having 2 wedding ceremonies
I have 3 daughters 2000 miles away that really want me to get married in their home state so they can be present. This is important to me too. However, also VERY important to me is to be married on the beach, where I live, which is not possible in their state. It's going to be a small ceremony(s), as this is not a first marriage for either one of us. My fiancé said either way, or both. But if I do this, which one would be considered the "official" date. And is there any easy way of doing this? I would like to call the beach my official wedding, but my visit with my girls comes before the beach date could...