We broke up 3 months ago, He tells me he still loves me, but he is in love with her, So, basically the entire time that we have been separated, he has been seeing her. He tells me that he does not want to not have me in his life. He tells me he misses me, he loves me etc... we even go out... we took a trip to Miami..!

But, he broadcasts his love for her.. Is she a rebound?. could he really love her, while loving me and having sex with me ?

She's a rebound, and you are one too now. He doesn't want to be with you, but he still wants to have sex with you and you're letting him. He's probably having sex with her too, taking advantage of both of you.

Stop being so naïve and have a bit of self respect, this man does not love you, so why does it matter if he loves her.

He's using you and you're letting him do it.

If he really loved you, then he would be with you. Get some self respect and find someone that treats you right and isn't using you. Tell him to have fun with her because you don't need him.

He loves you both! But he loves himself a lot more. He is playing you both for fools. Why NOT? You both allow it! Bet he is happy with the results even if you, or her is not.

I don't think he is lying, but he is cheating, right?

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Originally Posted by talaniman

He loves you both! But he loves himself a lot more. He is playing you both for fools. Why NOT?? You both allow it! Bet he is happy with the results even if you, or her is not.

I don't think he is lying, but he is cheating, right?

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I agree with you, o font think he is lying, he probably does believe he loves both of us... I know he loves me... but like u said... if he can get away with it... why not? I'm done, its too much work... I'm a strong believer in... If it meant to be, it'll be... Thank u all..