Hi, Im 20yrs old and I met this guy.he claims he 28. Well he also mention he have a 12yr old daughter. Anyway, We been dating for a few weeks going on a month.I finally went to his house for the first time. He have a beautiful home

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Hi, Im 20yrs old and i met this guy.he claims he 28. Well he also mention he have a 12yr old daughter. Anyway, We been dating for a few weeks going on a month.I finally went to his house for the first time. He have a beautiful home

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Okay, so he has a son and a beautiful home. What is your question for us?

Hi, Im 20yrs old and I met this guy.he claims he 28. Well he also mention he have a 12yr old daughter. Anyway, We been dating for a few weeks going on a month.I finally went to his house for the first time. He have a beautiful home. It look like it once was a happy home. OK so i.asked have he ever been married because it was just a feeling I had that I just had to ashgb bestHesitant

Hi, Im 20yrs old and I met this guy.he claims he 28. Well egg he also mention he have a 12yr old daughter. Anyway, We been dating for a few weeks going on a month.I finally went to his house for the first time. He have a beautiful home. It look like it once was a happy home. OK so i.asked have he ever been married because it was just a feeling I had to.ask. Well He was 1st hesitant to answer then told me yes. They been married for 8yrs and separated for 4months and now in the process of a divorce. I really like him but I don't think i.should talk to him because I think he lying to me. I already think he lying about his age but I don't know. I need help because I never been in this situation.

Your title says that someone has been married for 8 years and in the process of a divorce.

Do you have a question?

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Originally Posted by 1025court

Hi, Im 20yrs old and i met this guy.he claims he 28. Well egg he also mention he have a 12yr old daughter. Anyway, We been dating for a few weeks going on a month.I finally went to his house for the first time. He have a beautiful home. it look like it once was a happy home. ok so i.asked have he ever been married because it was just a feeling i had to.ask. Well He was 1st hesitant to answer then told me yes. They been married for 8yrs and separated for 4months and now in the process of a divorce. I really like him but i don't think i.should talk to him because i think he lying to me. i already think he lying about his age but idk. I need help because i never been in this situation.

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The answer to this is simple. Leave him alone until his divorce is final. He's not available to you right now. He has obligations... his SON!

I don't know what to do because he was never going to tell me if I didn't have a feeling in myy guts to ask.plus I think[ he lying about his age. If he is lying I don't want to be played at the end as the other woman. I don't know just never been in this situation QUOTE=J_9;3199812]Your title says that someone has been married for 8 years and in the process of a divorce.

Do you have a question?[/QUOTE]

You are already being played. He says he is married and he has a 12 year old son. If you don't want to be played kick him to the curb for someone who is actually available to you.

You leave him alone. It's really pretty simple. If he was not going to tell you he was married, what else is he hiding from you?