Im 8 months pregnant and my boyfriend and I broke up when I was about 5 1/2 months pregnant. We just recently got back together. I went to use his Craigslist account to sell some things and found ads he posted while we were not together in the "Casual Encounters" section wanting to have sexual relations with men. He's always been very against homosexuals. I've found emails of him sending pictures of his penis to random men off the website asking them for oral/anal/or just hand to genital contact. I'm very worried because I have no idea if he is and I'm too scared to ask him. Please help.

If you are "scared" to talk to your boyfriend about anything, there is no real or true relationship.
Get into counseling, since his gay ideas is really the least of the issue.

Next gay or straight or both, cheating is cheating, if they are in a relationship you don't cheat

You're about to have a baby with him so you need to be able to talk to him.
If he send sending pictures of his penis to men, he is more than likely gay or bi. But you have a right to know.

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

You're about to have a baby with him so you need to be able to talk to him.
If he send sending pictures of his penis to men, he is more than likely gay or bi. But you have a right to know.

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I'm scared because we have a past of me "finding" things for being nosey and he's always had a problem with me even going near any of his things; email/phone/ect.

Probably because he is hiding his sexuality from you.
This relationship is not going to work if you don't trust him to be honest and you can't talk to him.
Did you two resolved the issues from the first break up?

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Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

If you are "scared" to talk to your boyfriend about anything, there is no real or true relationship.
Get into counseling, since his gay ideas is really the least of the issue.

Next gay or straight or both, cheating is cheating, if they are in a relationship you don't cheat

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I'm only scared because of past problems with me being nosey. I've tried getting over the past but there's always something new that comes up. It's never when we are together, it's whenever we break up. Which has been 3 times in the past 5 years. I really just don't know how to ask him about it without him getting angry and it sounding like I'm accusing him.

He's gay or at least bi. Straight men don't send penis pics to other men and they certainly don't ask for anal sex from other men.

Did he know you were using his Craigslist account to sell things? If so, then technically, you weren't snooping there. At any rate, he's obviously hiding it from you.

As was already stated though, you have bigger problems than whether he's gay.

You have broken up three times in five years, there are problems. When you break up he goes to men, you got problems.
You're getting ready to have a baby, this mess with your boyfriend is something you don't need to have to deal with.
He needs to leave you alone because he does not know what he wants and you need to leave him alone because he cannot be honest with you.

And never mind the thought of what he could be bringing home to you if he is cheating.