We're been together since September. Lately communication has broken down. For the last week she has seemed distance, and yesterday she told me she didn't have romantic feelings for me anymore, but she still loved me.

I admit that I have become lazy in our relationship. I don't express my love like I used to, because I have taken her for granted. I want to change that.

We're been having problems because her family hates me, and I think that has caused a rift in our relationship.

She isn't promising not to give up on us because she's been trying for so long. And I haven't.

I'm serious about changing now. I have depression and it's not always easy to express my feelings, but I'm going to now. It's only been a day but it feels like she has given up. How can I get the spark back? And how can I work with her better?