I am 13 I am a lot more mature then you would think I am head over heels for this guy and we just started dating he is 15 and I know he absolutely loves me we have been friends for a while before and he finally asked me out I of course said ye but I am not sure if it's creepy like there is only 2 year diff but I don't know I need some help also please don't tell me I am to young to date because I honestly will not listen I already have a job I am already planing my futer I am mature I just don't know one if it's illigle and two if it is creepy

A truly mature person would spell properly and write coherently. I wish I had a dollar for every time I heard that I'm mature for my age business. Your writing certainly doesn't support it.

Whether you are too young to date is not so much for us to judge. Do your parents allow you to date?

Two years difference is not too much, but any sexual stuff would be illegal.

What's your definition of "mature"?

First I am on my phone so it is really hard to get everything correct and by matture I mean like I know my bounders and I am not like most 13 year olds I am just I guess different because I act a lot older and more matture and also he turn 16 in 4 months and I turn 14 in 6.5 months

What do you do that shows you are mature? What are most 13 year olds like?

You "know [your] bounders"? A bounder is a dishonorable man.

So you don't want to hear it, guess that is what your parents say, you will need their permission to date, have they given it?

I'm sorry, but I see nothing that shows any greater level of maturity. I see a typical 13 yr old who thinks they know better than more experienced adults. It is a rare teenager who is truly as mature as they think they are.

And his age matters less than your age. At 13 you have to abide by your parents rules. We asked you if your parents will allow you to date period, let alone date him. You didn't respond to that. And, at 13 you are under the age of consent so, again, ANY sexual activity, even groping through clothes, can land him in jail.

Do you marry with him or not??

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Originally Posted by Aj Thapa

Do you marry with him or not????????

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I realize that you may be from a different culture. But in most places 13 is too young to be married.

Oh sorry ! Yeah! I know that after 18 the marriage is ligle
I mean do u want to marry with him or not??

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Originally Posted by Aj Thapa

Oh sorry ! Yeah! i know that after 18 the marriage is ligle
I mean do u want to marry with him or not ??????

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It does not matter of she wants to marry him. She is only 13.
At 13 your mom would have to approve of your dating and I doubt she would be OK with you dating a 15 year old.