Ask Me Help Desk

Ask Me Help Desk (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/forum.php)
-   Teens (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/forumdisplay.php?f=327)
-   -   Does my lesbian have feeling for me? (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/showthread.php?t=683409)

  • Jul 16, 2012, 09:48 AM
    Crimson_Red
    Does my lesbian friend have feeling for me?
    For I want everyone to understand that I'm a guy and that this is a rather odd situation for me. Okay so basically a friend (She's a girl) and I had a bet which I lost. The prize was for the winner to choose. So it surprised me when she chose for me to treat her to lunch. So the next day I drove to her house to take her like I agreed. I was shocked to see she was wearing a new outfit she said her mom bought her. I shrugged it off as her just being her weird self. So anyway we were on our way to Golden Coral because that's where she chose to go and I start to smell something. I later realized it was her perfume. That surprised me more because she told me a while be fore our bet she only wears it when she on a date. So after lunch I take her back to her house. As she opens the door of her house I say good-bye, but before I turn to go back to my car she kisses me. I say it lasted for about 5-8 seconds, Then she backs away and says "I'm sorry, I shouldn't have done that." and then runs inside and closes the door. Now it's been two day since then and we haven't talked. Mostly because I have no idea what to say. I'm not even sure how I should feel. It's just a very awkward situation for me. Is it possible she has feeling for me and if she does what do I do? I mean I kind of feel I like her, but I just not sure at the moment. Any advice?
  • Jul 16, 2012, 10:42 AM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Crimson_Red View Post
    For I want everyone to understand that I'm a guy and that this is a rather odd situation for me. Okay so basically a friend (She's a girl) and I had a bet which I lost. The prize was for the winner to choose. So it surprised me when she chose for me to treat her to lunch. So the next day I drove to her house to take her like I agreed. I was shocked to see she was wearing a new outfit she said her mom bought her. I shrugged it off as her just being her weird self. So anyway we were on our way to Golden Coral because that's where she chose to go and I start to smell something. I later realized it was her perfume. That surprised me more because she told me a while be fore our bet she only wears it when she on a date. So after lunch I take her back to her house. As she opens the door of her house I say good-bye, but before I turn to go back to my car she kisses me. I say it lasted for about 5-8 seconds, Then she backs away and says "I'm sorry, I shouldn't have done that." and then runs inside and closes the door. Now it's been two day since then and we haven't talked. Mostly because I have no idea what to say. I'm not even sure how I should feel. It's just a very awkward situation for me. Is it possible she has feeling for me and if she does what do I do? I mean I kinda feel I like her, but I just not sure at the moment. Any advice?


    Why is this entitled "does MY lesbian have feeling for me"? She's a lesbian?

    How old are the two of you?

    She got dressed up for lunch at Golden Corral? She must really like you.
  • Jul 16, 2012, 10:51 AM
    Crimson_Red
    Sorry I type this on my phone and auto correct change it. It was meant to say 'does my lesbian friends having feeling for me?' And to answer your question I'm 17 turning 18 soon. Sorry for the misuderstanding.
  • Jul 16, 2012, 10:54 AM
    Crimson_Red
    To anyone who reads this it was meant to say lesbian friend. I typed it on my phone and it was auto corrected by mistake.
  • Jul 16, 2012, 11:51 AM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Crimson_Red View Post
    To anyone who reads this it was meant to say lesbian friend. I typed it on my phone and it was auto corrected by mistake.

    No problem - I couldn't tell if the title was related to the question.

    If you're interested I'd ask her out - she seems conflicted.

    Just don't get in the middle of a relationship that could be a problem. Maybe she's bisexual, not sure if she's a lesbian, something in between.

    Just don't get hurt -

  • All times are GMT -7. The time now is 04:34 AM.