I was with this guy for a few months and something awful happened where we broke up... and he comes out and tell me that he's gay. I really don't mind but I still love him, and I can not let go. He knows that I still have feelings for him but he acts like it is nothing. I thought that I needed to let go of him, but every time I tried he wouldn't let me go. Then if I change my cell number some how he finds me. What do I do?

Tell the bi guy to leave you alone. Who lets some one manipulate/control/impose on them like this? How old are you both?

He's being selfish. Tell him you do not want to have any further contact with him at this time and ask him to please respect your wishes. If he contacts you ignore it. I'm here to tell you the feelings will only go stronger if you continue to spend time with him.