I am really hurt that my past bothers my boyfriend. I had physical relationship with three guys before him. He had physical relationship with seven before me. I accepted him still. But he said my past bothers him so much sometimes. I told him I am sorry and I made mistakes in my past that I am not proud of and told him to forgive me and accept me as I have accepted him. I told him the past is the past and I can’t do anything about it to undo.
But he said the past says a lot about what we are today. And he said he will be really mad if we happen to meet the guys I had sex with, along the way. He tried to break up with me once because of my past but I didn’t give up on us because I thought the reason was so illogical. And at that time he understood a lot and apologized for his negative thinking and promised to not let that bother us again.
But we faced his mood swings even after that. I try not to bring up our past ever but sometime somewhere silly things trigger him to think about my past again. I love him unconditionally, and I don’t want to be in fear when my past will bother him again or when will he say we have to break up because he can’t accept my past.
What do I do when he's everything I ever wanted and I am everything he can’t accept?. I don’t want to lose him and I have never loved anyone in my life like I am loving him.
How do I handle a guy who reacts really fast to everything?? My boyfriend reacts pretty fast which has always been the problem to most of our misunderstandings.