My best girlfriend's husband cheated on her (she later found out) all through her marriage of 10 years. She brielfy attempted to reconcile and then moved on... Her EX has since begun a serious relationship with girl with a great reputation. She has NO IDEA. And thinks him to be "The One" after years of searching. His first wife is not going to say anything she has decided.

The new girl has mutal friends with me who know his past as well. But they want to warn her.
Should the new girl be aware of "the facts"... And then go from there.
Or should it be buried. And we tell friends etc. to bury it.



He may have cleaned up his act... doubtful but you never know... So, I said perhaps bury it, but am not sure.


Thoughts?

What happened in the past is past. If the new woman comes to her and asks the specific question, then by all means she should be honest. However, contacting the new woman at this point will serve no purpose except cause her to look vindictive. If your friend's husband is truly in love, he may not cheat this time. Or he may have learned something after the loss of his marriage.

I say she should offer nothing unless she is specifically asked.

Didi

I agree with Grammadidi, it's not your place to say anything unless asked and then you just tell what you know and nothing more. If asked don't give your opinion just state the case and leave it at that.