So recently my husband and I moved across country to be close to his parents, and while we've been looking for a place we've been staying at theirs. They still have my husbands childhood dog, so he is very old. The vet said he has arthritis, and he pants very hard when he breathes. The vet thought it might be because of the pain. He has a very hard time walking and bending his legs and he lays down almost all day.
The vet prescribed him tramadol and he was supposed to get it every 8 hours, but my in laws noticed he had become very lethargic so they stopped giving it to him all together, their logic being that's no way to live (personally I think living in severe and debilitating pain is no way to live, but that may just be me). I ended up convincing them to give him meds at night, and to let me do it as I had found his meds on the ground a few times(we have a 1 year old daughter so that scared the living daylights out of me). Sometimes if it seems like he's having a bad day I'll sneak him more.
Anyway, I just feel awful about all the pain he's in. I have severe fibromyalgia so I have a keener sense of when he's in pain than everyone else, and it's a lot. I was wondering if there is anything else I can do for him. Is there a kind of doggie massage that helps relieve arthritic pain? Any advice would be appreciated.

