I met this girl 2 years ago,we were bestfriends at first but then stuff happened this May,she's been trying to work things out with her ex for about 2 months but during those 2 months she been having sex with me and she wants to settle down... we both really care about each other but she loves her ex and can't forget about him... I stopped seeing her for a month already but I still talk to her on the phone,she calls me all the time.. im not in lust with her ,I'm in love with her! I just want to make her happy! What should I do??  

In my opinion, if she wants to settle down with you, then do it! You just have to make it clear that she can't associate with him. If being with you makes her happier than being alone, and you want her to be happy, be with her and make her happy. :).
And if you guys are having sex, there is definitely something more there than friendship for her so pursue it! Make her forget about her ex :)

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Originally Posted by bethanynjesse

In my opinion, if she wants to settle down with you, then do it! You just have to make it clear that she can't associate with him. If being with you makes her happier than being alone, and you want her to be happy, be with her and make her happy. :).
And if you guys are having sex, there is definitely something more there than friendship for her so pursue it! Make her forget about her ex :)

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Yea were having sex but she wants to settle down with her ex but I don't know if he wants to settle down with her... I haven't had sex with her for a month