After 7 months of dating, I discovered a text relationship between my boyfriend (who is buff & spends hours @ the gym including steroids use) and a man that crossdresses as a woman including a boob job but has a penis. My boyfriend sent naked pics of himself, including pics of him so turned on by receiving pics from this 'it' person that he was jacking off & begging this 'it' to please send more pics. I confronted my boyfriend & he swears he's not gay or bi, but I can't digest the fact that for over a year, he has been sending/receiving texts/pics of this person plus sending pics of himself if he isn't. It should've ended as sol. As my boyfriend found out he was a man, portraying himself as a female. I don't know what to believe. I don't know how to deal with this, but my boyfriend beggs me not to leave by saying he loves only me & isn't bi. Wth! You can't not be bi if you get pleasure from this right... please help!

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Originally Posted by genagirlrn

After 7 months of dating, I discovered a text relationship between my boyfriend (who is buff & spends hours @ the gym including steroids use) and a man that crossdresses as a woman including a boob job but has a penis. My bf sent naked pics of himself, including pics of him so turned on by receiving pics from this 'it' person that he was jacking off & begging this 'it' to plz send more pics. I confronted my bf & he swears he's not gay or bi, but I can't digest the fact that for over a year, he has been sending/receiving texts/pics of this person plus sending pics of himself if he isn't. It should've ended as sol. As my bf found out he was a man, portraying himself as a female. I don't know what to believe. I don't know how to deal with this, but my bf beggs me not to leave by saying he loves only me & isn't bi. Wth!! You can't not be bi if you get pleasure from this right..........please help!!

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Just an FYI, but you call those Trans-genders or trans-sexuals... they aren't cross-dressers. Cross dressers don't have real or fake boobs.

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Originally Posted by genagirlrn

After 7 months of dating, I discovered a text relationship between my boyfriend (who is buff & spends hours @ the gym including steroids use) and a man that crossdresses as a woman including a boob job but has a penis. My bf sent naked pics of himself, including pics of him so turned on by receiving pics from this 'it' person that he was jacking off & begging this 'it' to plz send more pics. I confronted my bf & he swears he's not gay or bi, but I can't digest the fact that for over a year, he has been sending/receiving texts/pics of this person plus sending pics of himself if he isn't. It should've ended as sol. As my bf found out he was a man, portraying himself as a female. I don't know what to believe. I don't know how to deal with this, but my bf beggs me not to leave by saying he loves only me & isn't bi. Wth!! You can't not be bi if you get pleasure from this right..........please help!!

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The third person involved in this relationship isn't an "it." He's also not a crossdresser. It appears he is a transgender.

Your boyfriend is sending naked photos of himself to this person, masturbating to the other person's photos and your biggest concern is whether he's bi or straight?

How would you feel if he would be behaving like this with a person who was born female?