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  • Jul 14, 2012, 03:10 AM
    SCAREDgurl52
    My period came 8 days late started light then got heavy?
    So me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex on the day after my period stopped an he released inside of me but he has a low sperm count. So we thought no big deal then I started to have pregnancy syptoms everyone described. Then the following month my period came 8 days late. It started light so light it didn't flow you could only se it after using the restroom an wiping. Then became heavy like my regular flow now its three days later an it getting lighter an my period last 7 days usually. My period has never been late or flowed like thin I'm nervous scared an 18 what do I do. If you could give me a answer I would reall appreciate it. THANKS!
  • Jul 14, 2012, 03:49 AM
    AnnieAunt
    Take a pregnancy test. Most importantly though, don't have unprotected sex with your boyfriend if you don't want children yet.

    You will need to get some support in place. If you are pregnant see a youth advisory service like brook, or whatever the equivalent is where you live. They are really helpful. You need to tell your parents though if you are pregnant because you will really need their support. A friend of mine had a baby at 18 and it was really difficult for her. Fortunately her father let her live with him but you will need some support. Make sure you also tell your boyfriend if you are pregnant.

    First things first though take a pregnancy test. You can only deal with things if you know what they are. Without taking a test you are effectively taking a stab in the dark. You need to know if you are pregnant before you can proceed with what to do.

    There is all sorts of financial assistance for young parents, and if you are at university then they will be able to help you too. Take a test ASAP.
  • Jul 14, 2012, 10:56 PM
    Mobley119
    If you don't mind me asking how do you know if he has low sperm count? That's something you have to get tested. And I agree with Annie you need to take a test.
  • Jul 23, 2012, 08:56 PM
    SCAREDgurl52
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Mobley119 View Post
    If you don't mind me asking how do you know if he has low sperm count? That's something you have to get tested. And I agree with Annie you need to take a test.

    He said in his last relationship they were trying an his doctor told him he had a low sperm count but I'm still nevervous because I'm still bleeding but its back light now should I still do a pregnancy test?
  • Jul 23, 2012, 08:58 PM
    J_9
    May I ask how old the two of you are?

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