So I'm 17 soon 18 and there this amazing guy I have know for almost 3years, we get along perfectly, like we talk a lot and we flirt a lot (he's like my bestfriend) the problem I have is he does like me but but he still flirts with me and I asked him to stop and we did try but we just went back to normal.We talk as if we are together but we not and he says I'm the only girl he has ever talk to like we do. Let me just say that he's 18 and only has ever had one girlfriend (a long time ago)so he's not a player or anything like that. What make this eeven more mad is I have a boyfriend 8monthsnow and I do like him but not as much as the other guy. Need advies please

I mean he doesn't like me*

If he doesn't like you there is really nothing you can do.
Put some effort into what you have and stop tripping over what you don't have.

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

If he doesn't like you there is really nothing you can do.
Put some effort into what you have and stop tripping over what you don't have.

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I disagree, how can you put effort into something you have but don't want if you believe there's something better?

You should explain to the guy your feelings about liking him if he decides he wants to give it go then you should find a way of breaking the news gently to your current boyfriend. If not I suggest you take some time off from both boys time to work out how you truly feel and move on.

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Originally Posted by louise1928

i disagree, how can you put effort into something you have but dont want if you believe there's something better?

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Then if she does not want this guy, she should leave him. She is in essence lying to him.
She is crushing on a guy who does not like her, she has a boy friend who does and she has been with him for 8 months.