My girlfriend and I have been living together for 2 years now. We have a child together. The last 2 years have been horrible. We have not had sex in over 2 years. At first I thought there was cheating involved but have confirmed there's none. I tried everything. Spending time with her, taking her on dates, I have been the nice guy, I'm now the ! I got more of a response but still no sex please help!

You should initiate the sex. Sounds like your egging her on to make a move herself. Maybe just ask her when your alone. '' Why don't we have sex anymore'' or ''Why aren't we as intimate''

What are her thoughts? Do you two ever talk about why she hasn't had sex with you?

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Originally Posted by Gamed

You should initiate the sex. Sounds like your egging her on to make a move herself. Maybe just ask her when your alone. '' Why dont we have sex anymore'' or ''Why arent we as intimate''

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I have she says she says she's not ready. But honestly 2 years! Its odd there's no kissing no I love yous. Yet she says she loves me. She avoids the subject by changing it. We could literally sit next to each other and not talk for hours. When I try to kick her out she says no I'm staying. It is so odd!

Maybe she needs to have her hormones checked. Low testosterone in women can cause loss of desire for sex. Suggest a visit to the Dr. Telling her that it could be a medical issue may help.

OR maybe she loves you, but is not IN love with you amymore. Maybe she isn't attracted to you anymore.

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Originally Posted by MannyLove_2013

I have she says she says shes not ready. But honestly 2 years! Its odd theres no kissing no i love yous. Yet she says she loves me. She avoids the subject by changing it. We could literally sit next to each other and not talk for hours. When i try to kick her out she says no im staying. It is so odd!

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You might have to lay it down ''I need an intimate loving partner and you show no interest in being intimate with me so this relationship needs to either shape up or end'' That's just an example you could maybe word it better but you get the idea... I CANNOT STRESS THIS ENOUGH CAMERAAAASSSS get a camera hide it somewere when you lay down the news If nothing changes call the cops to get her out. Record it all! Trust me you'll thank me forever. Or put her things outside when she isn't home and lock the door!

This is one of the problems of I'm not ready to marry yet but lets shack up and have a kid or two while we decide