So I for one don't get along with my dad! But I know none of this is my business but my mom left her Facebook up and I went through her messages and saw she was talking to two guys one she had dated before my dad but I guess they are bootycall friends and the were talking dirty to each other and txting each and she has diff names on her phone for
Them both I'm just sad I thought at least she would have got a divorce but I love her to pieces but I hate she is hideing this from me I find it gross but I don't want to confront her…

The decision on what to do it up to you. There are consequences for both actions, whether you tell or keep quiet. You're right though, it is none of you're business, but where do you draw the line, because you can't take back what you know.

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Why don't you ask her what she is doing. Maybe that would prompt her to sort it out with your dad if there is a problem between them.

Personally I wouldn't go straight to your dad with this before you have spoken to your mum.

You say you have issues with your dad,
I mean why should it mean anything to you anyway, you say you don't get on with your dad. You must care about him a little to be sending this message.

Sue

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Originally Posted by Scrounge1

So i for one dont get along with my dad! But i know none of this is my business but my mom left her facebook up and i went through her messages and saw she was talking to two guys one she had dated before my dad but i guess they are bootycall friends and the were talking dirty to eachother and txting each and she has diff names on her phone for
Them both im just sad i thought at least she would of got a divorce but i love her to peices but i hate she is hideing this from me i find it gross but i dont wanna confront her…

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This is none of your business. You had no right going through your mom's messages. Hiding this from you? It's not your business. When you snoop in people's business you sometime find stuff you don't want to know.
Keep your mouth shut!

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

This is none of your business. You had no right going through your mom's messages. Hiding this from you? It's not your business. When you snoop in people's business you sometime find stuff you don't want to know.
Keep your mouth shut!

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Well it is her mother... her family... the closest people she will ever have...

NO NO NO. You shouldn't of been snooping ,but this is by all means now your business. Your mom is cheating? This is your family she brought you into this world it wasn't your choice to be here ,and as a parent its her job to have you raised by good role models that love you in a safe environment. She's doing an act that is showing she's a terrible role model ,and is putting YOUR family at risk. Its best you confront her or if you can't confront your mom confront a close friend of your mom that can have her put an end to this before serious damage is done.

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NO NO NO. You shouldn't of been snooping ,but this is by all means now your buisness. Your mom is cheating? This is your family she brought you into this world it wasnt your choice to be here ,and as a parent its her job to have you raised by good role models that love you in a safe enviroment. Shes doing an act that is showing shes a terrible role model ,and is putting YOUR family at risk. Its best you confront her or if you can't confront your mom confront a close friend of your mom that can have her put an end to this before serious damage is done.

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I agree with confronting her mother in some way. I, however, strongly dissagree with her confronting a close friend or any other adult other than her parents. That would be none of their business.

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Well it is her mother....her family...the closest people she will ever have...

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I don't care if it is her mother. It is none of her business. She had no right snooping in her private messages.
How old are you Scrounge1? This is between your mom and dad, not you.