Why is my husband who's 53 sleeping with a 26 year old and he hits me I feel I deserve it cause he my husband do I?

Dear friend! Why do you think you deserve it. Adultery and physical abuse both are wrong morally as well as legally. You can seek the help from outside. Approach your family members, church members, counselor to look into the matter. You should not go through this torture. Please do something about it as soon as possible.

You definitely do not deserve being hit. Whether you deserve infidelity is a harder question to answer.

But the bottom line is, if he is not going to respect you and your marriage then file for divorce.

So sad, to think, that still, to this day, there are women that think they deserve to be abused.