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  • Jul 11, 2012, 12:51 AM
    shalai666
    Breaking up
    I really hope someone can help $e figure this out. My boyfriend and I broke up after ssomeone "supposedly" told him I was talking to someone else. He had said since the beginning of our relationship that he wouldn't forgive me if a cheated and he broke up with me.I'm very hurt,it was a 3 months old relationship but we spent so much time tiguether,we wanted kids and talked about marriage. I don't know what to do! I tried to resolve thing but it didn't work,he's not the same and hurts so much to ssee him around and just ignore him like he's a stranger.what would you do in my situation? :(
  • Jul 11, 2012, 08:47 AM
    virginiax7
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by shalai666 View Post
    I really hope someone can help $e figure this out. My boyfriend and I broke up after ssomeone "supposedly" told him I was talking to someone else. He had said since the beginning of our relationship that he wouldn't forgive me if a cheated and he broke up with me.I'm very hurt,it was a 3 months old relationship but we spent so much time tiguether,we wanted kids and talked about marriage. I don't know what to do! I tried to resolve thing but it didn't work,he's not the same and hurts so much to ssee him around and just ignore him like he's a stranger.what would you do in my situation? :(

    Trust is the cornerstone of a relationship... with out trust you got nothing
  • Jul 11, 2012, 10:22 AM
    mmresd
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by shalai666 View Post
    I really hope someone can help $e figure this out. My boyfriend and I broke up after ssomeone "supposedly" told him I was talking to someone else. He had said since the beginning of our relationship that he wouldn't forgive me if a cheated and he broke up with me.I'm very hurt,it was a 3 months old relationship but we spent so much time tiguether,we wanted kids and talked about marriage. I don't know what to do! I tried to resolve thing but it didn't work,he's not the same and hurts so much to ssee him around and just ignore him like he's a stranger.what would you do in my situation? :(

    You accept his decision and move on. Go no contact, and time will heal your wound. Remember that a guy that is so quickly to bail because of someone else's words does not trust you, and without trust, there is no relationship, better to let it go now than later when you are more emotionally involved.

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