After all the troubles, is there still a chance?
I have been with my boyfriend for four years off and on, more on than off, but the point of it is that he still has an anger issue and gets mad about the little stuff and ten turns into something that doesn't have anything to do with the subject. For example if I was the one who set the alarm and it doesn't go off in the morning it is my fault, but the alarm shuts off if any button besides the sleep button is pushed. Then this led to him saying that because I don't please him "relieve him" (if you know what I mean) he will go find it some where else. And he actually has. Other then the whole anger issue we have been okay. Another factor to my relationship is that I have a daughter that is not his biologically and when we got together she was just over one year old. I would have figured by now she would be calling him dad instead of by his first name. Now that she is five I have asked her why she doesn't call him dad and her response is that she don't want just because. I don't want to hurt her any more or myself. So am I making the right choice by trying to figure out why he gets angry and solve it or should I break it off. If I should break it off how should that be done. I have broke up with him before and he cried and begged to me to take him back and I did, but if I do it this time I want it to be final. I am not scared of him because he has never done nothing physically to hurt me, but I am tired of feeling hurt all of the time by the things he says. And please don't criticize me for this it is not as complicated as it sounds.