I've been dating a guy 3 months. I love him so much but he is going to college after this summer(2012) his college is 3hrs away. He is a football player and he is outgoing. I'm afraid he might cheat on me:( I trust him so I will hope for the best. I will be a junior so I still have 2yrs left! What can I do to keep our relationship? Do u think I should break up? Or try a long distance relationship? Do u think he is just having fun with me this summer (we have sex a lot)?

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Originally Posted by Stephaniecg

I'm afraid he might cheat on me:( i trust him so i will hope for the best.

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These two statements contradict one another. If you are afraid he will cheat on you, then you don't truly trust him. Three months isn't long enough to know if he's the one you want to spend the rest of your life with. I would say, if you don't trust him, end the relationship before you stress yourself out for three years wondering if he cheated on you.

[QUOTE=C0bra_M3nace;3187382]These two statements contradict one another.

I know! Haha but he always tells me the truth but I don't know very well his friends so I don't know how he acts around them when I'm not there. I'm worried but everything he's done so far has been loyal.

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Originally Posted by C0bra_M3nace

These two statements contradict one another.

I know! Haha but he always tells me the truth but i dont know very well his friends so idk how he acts around them when i'm not there. I'm worried but everything hes done so far has been loyal.

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As long as there is some doubt, you don't truly trust him and for this to work out smoothly, you will need complete trust. Trust doesn't come easily though, so it may be best to let go.