So I'm 48 and divorced, and I've been seeing this guy that I've known for 22 years, but we've only been dating for about 2 years. He is 46 and never married. We go on trips together, spend every weekends together, and he truly is my best friend. He knows that I love him, but whenever I try to approach the subject of what our relationship is, he is always very vauge and he is never willing to define what we are. He has never really been physical, and we have only kissed a handful of times. The thing is, he initiates all of our "dates", so I continue to assume he is intrested, especially when I have been clear about my feelings for him. He has dated other people in the past, but this is the most serious he has ever been about someone. I realize two things, 1) it totally sounds like he is gay, and 2) I sound totally insane for staying with him. He assures me he is not gay, and he says he just moves really slow. The idea of him not in my life would be very painful. So what do I do? I just want to know where we stand.
