I lyed to her about stupid lies but the main one waz if I had kid I told her yea and truth is is it wazent my kid but I waz thare for her thro it all I loved her like she waz myn an she died and my girl friend and I are about to have a kid and she found out that it wazent my kid and she thinks I played the simputhy car with her because she lost her dater to bran cancer I don't no what to do I love her we talk ever day but we don't live to gether any more and I won't us back together I mesed up and I take the full blam for it and I keep paying all the bills even though we ant together I gess she hazent said we are or aren't together what do I do

It looks like you have more problems than being a liar. It is very hard to take this post seriously with your bad spelling, punctuation and grammar.

For all I know you could be a kid on summer break having his fun. However, I am willing to give you the benefit of the doubt.

Ok, what's done is done. That being said, DON'T LIE... ANYMORE! If You care about this person, then you shouldn't have to lie. I do see redemption here. So this little girl wasn't really yours, but you treated her as if she were... So, you tell her that. There is no reason to lie about that. I am sure she would have respected you either way...

Once you lie about one thing, then you lie about another... and another... and another... and so on... until you are caught up in a web of lies that you don't even know what is truth or lie. You will find that you can't tell the difference anymore, then you're stuck with note cards telling you which lie is which and who the hell it was even for... Ok, that was quite an exaggeration, but you get the hint...

So... be who you are and STOP IT with the lies...