Please help me to feel better. I've had one boyfriend in my life and although he liked me a lot, there was a lack of romance in our relationship. We've now split up. Anyway, as I have grown, more boys have gone after me, but at the moment, I'm too reluctant to form an intimate relationship with anyone for fear there will be a lack of romance and that they'll push me into sex. My boyfriend before told me things like I'm sexy and hot but never called me beautiful or gorgeous or whatever. I don't want to be liked for just my looks, I also want my inner qualities to be appreciated as well. I'm worried I'll never find romance and that boys will only be interested in me for sex. I'm not a slut (excuse my language) and I don't wear or do anything that makes me seem easy. What am I to do?

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Originally Posted by allydee

Please help me to feel better. I've had one boyfriend in my life and although he liked me a lot, there was a lack of romance in our relationship. We've now split up. Anyway, as I have grown, more boys have gone after me, but at the moment, I'm too reluctant to form an intimate relationship with anyone for fear there will be a lack of romance and that they'll push me into sex. My boyfriend before told me things like I'm sexy and hot but never called me beautiful or gorgeous or whatever. I don't want to be liked for just my looks, I also want my inner qualities to be appreciated as well. I'm worried I'll never find romance and that boys will only be interested in me for sex. I'm not a slut (excuse my language) and I don't wear or do anything that makes me seem easy. What am I to do?

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Well, don't waste time with the boys... when you have grown more.. finished school, and not been distracted during that time.. look for a man... and forget the boys.

Remember that life is not a romantic comedy, love is somnething that happens over time, not over a candle lit dinner. Romance is fun. But reality is better. Find a guy to be your best friend, not your don juan