I've know a guy for about 10 year. He's been married divorced met someone new then 2 year ago split up and we swapped numbers. We've met on nites out and he's stayed over at mine but we haven't slept togetha. We've sent a few text over that time but I think he was on and off still with his girlfriend. Over the last 8 weeks we txted more and I asked if he still had a girlfriend he said no but I think he has. He's said that he wants the full package with me and wants to settle down. He's talked about weekends away how he loves me how much I mean to him. Every time I ask when are we going to meet up he goes quiet and I don't get a straight answer. So I finally said you can't keep saying all this and not follow through. He said he's not ready for anything and its not fair as he ccant give me what I deserve and doesn't want to hurt me, so at this point he's going to have to let me go. Why has he said all this then said he's not ready?