Whan I was little my momma told me my daddy was dead! When I turned 13 I came home and found him on my couch. When I was in my late 20"s my daddy told me I was not his child, then I asked him if he would kick me to the curb? I am now 45 and found out through a DNA test who my father is and he is now dead. My mother told me I did not need to know and it was none of my business. How can parents treat kids this way and expect us not to have bad feelings?

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Originally Posted by annaforbus

Whan I was little my momma told me my daddy was dead! When I turned 13 I came home and found him on my couch. When I was in my late 20"s my daddy told me I was not his child, then I asked him if he would kick me to the curb? I am now 45 and found out through a DNA test who my father is and he is now dead. My mother told me I did not need to know and it was none of my business. How can parents treat kids this way and expect us not to have bad feelings?

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Well... thats because you don't have to pass a test proving you are parent material to have a kid. Personally I think there should be if there was a way to enforce it.

When a person has an affair then gets pregnant and tries to hide it, that is just wrong. Just fess up. This has affected me my whole life. I have lots of medical issues and thank the lord I found out who he was. This man had lots of health issues and thanks to that I was born with them. Now I know why I am very sickly.