Hi I'm 13 and I feel depressed I have recently seen life past and don't see the point of living, I also do self harm on my leg, hip and wrist, I have tried to commit surcide recently, what should I do? I need your help?

Hey I did this over my family.

Trust me you just need to talk to someone your young you have your life ahead of you,

You just need somethingor some one to take your mind of it and make you happy

candy floss x

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Originally Posted by Yolo12

Hi im 13 and I feel depressed I have recently seen life past and dont see the point of living, I also do self harm on my leg, hip and wrist, I have tried to commit surcide recently, what should I do? I need your help?

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Sweetheart I know how you feel, I am also depressed and I'm 20. But if you feel the need to commit suicide, please think about your family and those who care for you. I know that I don't know you but I truly care for you. And know that if you do although I truly hope you don't, that what awaits you will not ease your pain, don't make the mistake I made. Have you talked t o your parents about this? If not then it would be a good idea. Even if they don't understand they can still try to help, and if you like you can continue to talk to me, whatever makes you feel you need to feel better about this. Just know Sweetie, you're not alone, even if you feel like you are, remember in your darkest hour, you will find hope. Best wishes dear.

Thanks, and I haven't told my mum about every thing just about self harm, but I have spoken to a teacher I'm really close to about all this stuff I fond it easier to talk to her then my parents I don't know why?

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Originally Posted by A1r2i3e4l5

Sweetheart I know how you feel, I am also depressed and I'm 20. But if you feel the need to commit suicide, please think about your family and those who care for you. I know that I don't know you but I truly care for you. And know that if you do although I truly hope you don't, that what awaits you will not ease your pain, don't make the mistake I made. Have you talked t o your parents about this? If not then it would be a good idea. Even if they don't understand they can still try to help, and if you like you can continue to talk to me, whatever makes you feel you need to feel better about this. Just know Sweetie, you're not alone, even if you feel like you are, remember in your darkest hour, you will find hope. Best wishes dear.

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Thanks heaps, I haven't told my mum everything only self harm.. I don't really know how to bring the conversation up. I have spoken to a teacher at my school who I'm close to and she's referred me on to a councilor inside of school but I don't know how ti bring it up to mum?

You are leaving childhood behind and have so many exciting adventures ahead of you in your teens and during adulthood -- school and making new friends, college maybe, jobs of various kinds, romances, maybe marriage and children, new cars and homes, planting a vegetable and flower garden, reading books you enjoy, going on vacations to places you've never been to, even having grandchildren someday and sharing your experiences with them. I see every possible reason for living!

Talk to your mum about getting counseling help. You have such a bright future ahead of you!

Tell her you know you have such a great life ahead and want to be the best you can be!

Its me again I'm 13 feeling depressed but I don't understand:
Im not eating all the time because I don't feel hungry and I feel really sick from this my sleep patern has come down to like 3 maybe 4 hrs at night I can't get to sleep, I basically cry myself to sleep, I feel like I can't cope anymore and I don't have the energy to do things anymore, when ever I eat I always feel sick after.

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Originally Posted by Yolo12

Thanks heaps, I havent told my mum everything only self harm.. I dont really know how to bring the convo up. I have spoken to a teacher at my school who im close to and shes refered me on to a councilor inside of school but I dont know how ti bring it up to mum?

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I know that feeling too hun. I know it's difficult to just tell her about self harm alone, when you do tell her, tell her when you feel ready and if it may help ask your teacher if they can be with you or help you tell your mom, but once you explain anything you can about how you feel I'm pretty sure she'll do everything in her power to help. Although I'm very happy you were able to talk to someone about it. If you still have a bit of a hard time then you're still more than welcome to talk to me Sweetie.

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Originally Posted by A1r2i3e4l5

I know that feeling too hun. I know it's difficult to just tell her about self harm alone, when you do tell her, tell her when you feel ready and if it may help ask your teacher if they can be with you or help you tell your mom, but once you explain anything you can about how you feel I'm pretty sure she'll do everything in her power to help. Although I'm very happy you were able to talk to someone about it. If you still have a bit of a hard time then you're still more than welcome to talk to me Sweetie.

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thanks heaps I will keep you updated.

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Originally Posted by Yolo12

thanks heaps i will keep you updated.

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Glad to hear it, Best of luck dear.