My boyfriend is 10 yrs older than I am. He says am rude and I don't respect him. What do I do to make him see me in a different light and perspective. I love him and I also want him to respect me

Well, it depends, how does he say your rude, like what does he think your doing to be rude??

The answer is usually the same for all relationship questions: talk to him. Find out what he means, get some examples, then discuss it - with HIM.

It's a little puzzling, calling a girlfriend rude and disrespectful. Sounds sort of parental. Are you really young?

Why did he say you were rude, and disrespectful? Did you ask him what he means? Did you talk about it?