6 months ago I had been madly in love with a guy. He used to be everything for me, I would have done anything for him and when our relationship started to fade away, I put all my effort to keep it alive. But we finally broke up.

There have been rough times after that, but I did everything I could to get over him and to live my live fully. In fact, I feel so confident that I don't need anybody to raise me up. Well, I think that's OK, but I feel so self-centered that I became to hate anything related to men, so I don't feel like falling in love with one.

I have already been through this 'hate state' and I really screw up in the first relationship. Afterwards I fell in love with this guy and felt so sorry that I didn't commit first time that I became obsessed with him. I don't want to go through this hell again. Any ideas / advice would be more that welcome!