So this was my first time haing sex and the things is da I was bleeding which seemd to look lyk bred/brown mucous?. I was like that for almost 2 days then we had sex again and this time I was bleeding red but very ligh (bleeding for 2days) and thing is that I'm not suppose to get my period until the 8-10? And we had had sex on 6/30... Im not sure if its my period.. I also read that it could be the eggs that were in my ovarie and are coming out (cleaning what was left) could I be pregnant? Im just goen crazy reading everything and not finding the answer I want.. Please help...

If this was your first time then it's likely that the bleeding was due to your hymen being torn. That's perfectly normal. Not every woman bleeds the first time she has sex, but many do, and it can happen the first few times you have sex, until your hymen is completely broken.

Could you be pregnant? Of course you could. You had sex, so pregnancy is definitely possible. But what you're describing aren't pregnancy symptoms.

Wait until your period is due. If you're over a week late then try a pregnancy test using first morning urine. If it's negative then wait another week or two, and if you still haven't gotten your period, test again or see a doctor for a more accurate blood test.

If you're not ready for pregnancy, you're not ready for sex, because pregnancy can happen even if birth control is used.

Does the "14" in your user name refer to your age?

You did not mention what types of birth control you are on, Since you seem so concerned over being pregnant, I would know that you would have gotten on the pill and also used the condom.

Because of course after having sex three times is too late to worry, it shows a plan for pregnancy.

Can you be pregnant, of course, you had sex three times, Anytime you have sex, you can get pregnant, "times" just increase odds, not stops them

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Does the "14" in your user name refer to your age?

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No Lol Its My Number we Use For oUr Party Group

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You did not mention what types of birth control you are on, Since you seem so concerned over being pregnant, I would know that you would have gotten on the pill and also used the condom.

Because of course after having sex three times is too late to worry, it shows a plan for pregnancy.

Can you be pregnant, of course, you had sex three times, Anytime you have sex, you can get pregnant, "times" just increase odds, not stops them

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I don't use birthcontrol.. .

It was Just Twice..

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If this was your first time then it's likely that the bleeding was due to your hymen being torn. That's perfectly normal. Not every woman bleeds the first time she has sex, but many do, and it can happen the first few times you have sex, until your hymen is completely broken.

Could you be pregnant? Of course you could. You had sex, so pregnancy is definitely possible. But what you're describing aren't pregnancy symptoms.

Wait until your period is due. If you're over a week late then try a pregnancy test using first morning urine. If it's negative then wait another week or two, and if you still haven't gotten your period, test again or see a doctor for a more accurate blood test.

If you're not ready for pregnancy, you're not ready for sex, because pregnancy can happen even if birth control is used.

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That's the thing my period is suppose to be due this July the 8 I'm always behind I never start early an I want to know after the brown mucouse.. Why am I still bleeding it doesn't feel lyk a period I don't feel it all..

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I dont use birthcontrol.. ...

It was Just Twice ..

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All it takes is once, so you did it two times too many.

You can get pregnant the first time you have sex. Do you know that? Do you know anything about sex, pregnancy? How old are you?

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That's the thing my period is suppose to be due this July the 8 im always behind i never start early an i want to know after the brown mucouse .. Why am i still bleeding it doesnt feel lyk a period i dont feel it all ..

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I already answered that. Read my first post.

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I already answered that. Read my first post.

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That apparently would involve reading before posting - no way is this adult. She thinks she can't get pregnant because "it" was only twice?

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That apparently would involve reading before posting - no way is this adult. She thinks she can't get pregnant because "it" was only twice?

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And she still doesn't understand the bleeding after her first time.

If 14 is just a number, I'd bet we're dealing with someone younger than 14. No way is this child old enough, or informed enough, to play adult games.

Hopefully she dodged the bullet this time, learns a lesson, and doesn't have sex until she's old enough, and informed enough, to suffer the consequences. :(

No way she's an adult - I'm going with 13, posting as 14.

I have no idea why anyone comes on a Q and A site and doesn't tell the truth. A big waste of everyone's time - including the person asking.

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No way she's an adult - I'm going with 13, posting as 14.

I have no idea why anyone comes on a Q and A site and doesn't tell the truth. A big waste of everyone's time - including the person asking.

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It really is.

Even if the truth makes you sound bad, it's still needed if you actually want an accurate answer.

Lie to us, and we can only go by what you post. You won't get accurate advice, so why do it? Why even bother?

My favorite though (and I'm being sarcastic), is the people that come here claiming they want advice, and then argue with the advice given because it's not what they want to hear, even though it's the truth.

If you want someone that's just going to agree with you, go talk to your friends. If you want the truth, then ask here, but be warned that the truth can hurt sometimes.

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It really is.

Even if the truth makes you sound bad, it's still needed if you actually want an accurate answer.

Lie to us, and we can only go by what you post. You won't get accurate advice, so why do it? Why even bother?

My favorite though (and I'm being sarcastic), is the people that come here claiming they want advice, and then argue with the advice given because it's not what they want to hear, even though it's the truth.

If you want someone that's just going to agree with you, go talk to your friends. If you want the truth, then ask here, but be warned that the truth can hurt sometimes.

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I know - there's one going on now and the OP can't decide whether to get divorced because he's her husband or doesn't need to divorce because he's not her husband.

Odd - I always remember who my husband(s) was(were).

When I don't really want an opinion different from mine I ask my friends - I don't post on AMHD.

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I know - there's one going on now and the OP can't decide whether to get divorced because he's her husband or doesn't need to divorce because he's not her husband.

Odd - I always remember who my husband(s) was(were).

When I don't really want an opinion different from mine I ask my friends - I don't post on AMHD.

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I'll need a link to that one. I never have a problem remembering who my husband is. He makes sure of that. ;)

LOL! When I don't want an opinion different than mine, I don't ask anyone, I just tell myself "You're right, so stop questioning yourself. Remember that time you thought you were wrong? Well, you were mistaken". ;)

Im 19 about to be 20 and I wasn't really ready but it just happened... I know I keep asking but I just don't want to brng my hopes up or my boyfriends.. we'v been together for 2 years and not knowing everything about sex it wasn't really in my mind..

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Im 19 about to be 20 and i wasn't really ready but it just happend... I know i keep asking but i just dont want to brng my hopes up or my boyfriends ..we'v been together for 2 years and not knowing everything bout sex it wasn't really in my mind..

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Get your hopes up for what? Pregnancy?

You're not ready for pregnancy. I also doubt that you're 19. You sound more like someone the age of 12.

If you don't know anything about sex, which you don't, then you shouldn't be engaging in sex. Also, with your past posts you sounded worried, not ready for pregnancy, now you're suddenly suggesting that you're trying to conceive?

We need the truth. If you're not willing to be honest with us, then we're not willing to help, and we volunteer here, choose which questions we want to answer, so there's nothing obligating us to help.

Honesty. That's what we need from you, and right now, I'd bet money that we're not getting honesty.

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That apparently would involve reading before posting - no way is this adult. She thinks she can't get pregnant because "it" was only twice?

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Im 19 going to be 20 and I know I keep asking it's just I never has doing "it" in my mine but it just happened one night.. But thank you anyway for your answers and critics.

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Im 19 going to be 20 and i know i keep asking it's just i never has doing "it" in my mine but it just happend one night .. But thank you anyways for your answers and critics.

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You can keep asking all you want. The bottom line is, we can't tell you if you're pregnant. No one on the internet can. We can tell you that it's very possible, since you had sex, and unprotected sex no less. So yes, there's a very good chance that you're pregnant.

But, like every other woman on the face of this earth, you'll have to wait and see. If your period is late then try a pregnancy test using first morning urine. If it's negative wait another week or two and test again. If that test is negative wait until your next period is due and test again. If that test is negative then go to a doctor for a more accurate blood test. Keep testing until you either get your period, or a positive result.

That's your only option.

If you're not pregnant and don't want to be, then learn from this. The only way to prevent pregnancy 100% is to not have sex. If you continue to have sex, even with birth control, there's a chance of pregnancy. Those are the facts.

Now you have to wait and see. That's all you can do.

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Get your hopes up for what? Pregnancy?

You're not ready for pregnancy. I also doubt that you're 19. You sound more like someone the age of 12.

If you don't know anything about sex, which you don't, then you shouldn't be engaging in sex. Also, with your past posts you sounded worried, not ready for pregnancy, now you're suddenly suggesting that you're trying to conceive?

We need the truth. If you're not willing to be honest with us, then we're not willing to help, and we volunteer here, choose which questions we want to answer, so there's nothing obligating us to help.

Honesty. That's what we need from you, and right now, I'd bet money that we're not getting honesty.

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No I'm not no 12 year old.. I was always and still am a woman that studies through out her time trying to be a preschool teacher and I never had time to fool around and this is my first boyfriend.. I have no friends there a waist of my time to be worring anout drama when they don't listen... So yes I'm new at all this that's why I'm looking for answers and I thought it was a good idea tew get some from people that know.. And if I am preganant well good which I wasn't expecting until I was at least 25, I sounded worried because I want the best and not finishing my last year of college I might not give him/her the best in life..