I'm a 20 years old female, my lover is 26. We been having sex for about 3 months. I didn't give him a oral on the first time we had sex, not even the second, or third, even if he was asking for it, then one time he kind of took my head and directed me down there, so I did him oral, I really liked it, loved it actually haha, and from that time I just do oral every time before intercouse. He is always playing with his tongue around my lips or tongue when we kiss, but I wish he could do that down there, he even asked me once if I shaved, I didn't shaved my before, wasn't that wild neither, but I took that as_him asking me to shave, so I shaved constantly now. HOW DO I KNOW IF HE WANTS TO DO ORAL SEX TO ME?? I Don't KNOW HOW TO ASK HIM TO DO ME ORAL SEX NEITHER!! What's A GOOD APPROACH??

Good approach: Ask him.

Ya, ask him.

Do what he did, direct his head down there. If it was good enough for him, it should be good enough for you.

What everyone else said... if you are able to have sex with him... you should be able to ask him... it may come as a surprise to some women... but we can't read minds.

Girl don't be afraid just do it grab his head and put it there, he won't mind he's too into the moment.

If you can not talk to your partner about sex, what you like, what you don't like, you are in trouble and have no business having sex. Not in bed, but sitting before TV or at dinner, if you can't just sit and talk honestly about things, sex will never be over the top