I'm pregnant with my sisters ex boyfriend we've been together since April, but he made it clear that he doesn't want another one, just because he's 41. Plus he thinks it will ruin my family situation,, I don't want to have an abortion because this might be my last chance and I wanted one more, I'm 39yrs old. What can I do, his mind is set that he doesn't want another baby, he has an 18yr old with my sister already and they've been apart for over 2yrs. I don't know what to do??

Who gives a flying f**k what he wants? It's your body, do as you wish.

Forget about what he wants. Do you have a good job and family support for a baby?

It doesn't matter what he wants, he can go F himself, kick him out of your life, and take care of your child.

Why cares what he wants, and to be honest he is not really concerned about your family, he is concerned about 18 years of child support.\

So who cares what your boyfriend things, if he was worried about ruining your family relationship he would not have jumped into the bed with you.