I have been dating my boyfriend for 5 months now and I'm head over heals in love with him!! We spend so much time together that its hard when he leaves. Every time he leaves for a weekend with his family I get so depressed... I can't sleep, I lose my appetite, and I cry myself to sleep constantly. Why do I get so upset and how can I change that?

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Originally Posted by JandD

I have been dating my boyfriend for 5 months now and I'm head over heals in love with him!!!!!! We spend so much time together that its hard when he leaves. Every time he leaves for a weekend with his family I get so depressed...I can't sleep, I lose my appetite, and I cry myself to sleep constantly. Why do I get so upset and how can I change that?

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Stop being so clingy... or he's going to walk away as soon as he gets tired of it. Its cute at first but gets to be real irritating after a while. So its going to happen... question is when.

And at 5 months... you are in lust with him... not love... there is a difference and it takes a lot of life experience to see the difference yourself.

But basically love grows slowly... lust comes on real fast and can fade even faster.