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BFFL where are u?

I've resently started at high school and all my closest friends and I have disperesed into different schools .I see them at least once a week but I miss them so badly that it hurts when we forget to tell each other anything.when we do see each other we are very supportive of our achievements and goals,we gossip like all teen girls but I seriously miss them,something happens each day I wish I could tell them

I have mad ea bunch of new friends at high school but it is difficult for me to deal with not seeing my girls(been friends since todler)I'v asked them and they feel the same

Is there a question here?

A reddie for asking if there's a question. Yes, school is out and the 14-year olds are controlling AMHD.

The disagree feature is for an incorrect answer - what about my answer was incorrect?

Yes there is.it is saying that how do I stop longing for my mates so much that it becomes a real problem

I know this isn't easy, but try anyway: think of the kids who are transported hundreds of miles away, whole countries even, from old friends when parents move or split up. Think of what happens when you graduate and everyone goes off to work or schools or the military or marriage or travel. Life is about change. You are lucky to see them once a week while you make new friends. You are lucky you live in the age of phones for kids and email and webcams and Facebook. Life can be a lot worse.

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Originally Posted by sgree175

yes there is.it is saying that how do i stop longing for my mates so much that it becomes a real problem

You talk to them every day after school. You get together on weekends. That is how you keep up with people you want to keep up with.
In time as you make new friends, you don't feel that need so much

I don't seethem after school,or the weekends because we are all so busy

You can text and talk to each other.
It will get easier as you become more involved in school.
People go through these types of changes all the time.

You either all make an effort to see each other or you find new friends.

We do try ,these girls are amazing.We truly care for each other.

Also if you could please stop internet stalking me that would be great

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Originally Posted by sgree175

we do try ,these girls are amazing.We truely care for eachother.

Also if you could please stop internet stalking me that would be great

Who are you talking to?

Judy kay tee, she is posting impolite things after everything I post.Just a little internet drama

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Originally Posted by sgree175

we do try ,these girls are amazing.We truely care for eachother.

Also if you could please stop internet stalking me that would be great

Sgree, the people answering your posts are long time members of this site. We answer many questions. It's not stalking, not at all.

If you want to be able to dictate who answers your questions, then join another site. On AMHD anyone that's a member can answer your questions.

As for your friends. Either make the time in your busy schedules, or move on. We all have the choice to make time for those we care about, or forget about them. If they mean that much to you I'm sure you can find a few minutes each day to keep in touch.

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Originally Posted by sgree175

judy kay tee, she is posting impolite things after everything i post.Just a little internet drama

Actually no. She's posting based on what you post. She's also posting on threads that are open to all members. You cannot dictate who responds to your question, or how they respond.

It's only become drama because that's where you've taken it.

I would really suggest that you read the rules of this site before you continue to post.

Sgree has requested me not to post on "her" threads - I would guess I'm the one she's talking to.

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Originally Posted by sgree175

judy kay tee, she is posting impolite things after everything i post.Just a little internet drama

She does not do drama. She gives sound advice and she has every right to post here. We answer hundreds of questions a day, stalking one particular person is the last thing any of us are thinking about.

Oh no I didn't mean it like that she is very intelligent but some of her quotes... well aren't very uplifting.But I suppose I did sass mouth her .and I did try to appologise.All I want is to help people and myeslf just like her.

I find the quotes at the bottom of her answers amusing.

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oh no I didn't mean it like that she is very intelligent but some of her quotes.... well aren't very uplifting.But i suppose i did sass mouth her .and i did try to appologise.All i want is to help people and myeslf just like her.

Then stop using this site like a chat forum, and start asking or answering questions. But, know this, if you answer a question and your advice isn't accurate, that's a big deal, and we won't just sit by and let it go. We will correct any inaccurate advice you give, for the good of the person asking the question. That's what this site is about, accurate information.

This entire thing started because you didn't like being told that you're wrong. You have to learn that just because you think you know everything, doesn't mean you're right.

If you can accept that, then we can move on. Continue the way you are and you won't be welcome to post any more. This isn't a place to have fun. If that's what you're looking for, you should find another place to play.

So either post serious questions, and realize that you can't dictate who answers them, or post accurate answers, and realize that if your info is wrong, we'll call you on it. That's not being hurtful, it's teaching. If you're not willing to learn, then stop posting. That's really the bottom line.

Not being mean, just telling you how it is. Right now it's summer vacation, and we have far too many teens that think they know everything posting and proving that they know nothing. You're either an asset to the site, or the cause of more work. We've been there before. We'll get through another summer. But right now you're a problem, not an asset. Only you can change that.