My problem is. I finally found a nice guy. He is awesome and fun. He treats me like gold. We just don't have it going on sexually. Is it stupid to try to make it happen? We have been together for 3 months. I want so much for us to work. He is a great guy! But I am not sexually attracted. And its not that I don't enjoy getting off. My last boyfriend and I had sex all the time and I loved it. It was good sex. I want that sex with my new guy. I even tried laying by him and masturbating. I couldn't get off. When I'm alone I can do it in 2 minutes. I hope someone can figure me out a solution.

I think you already know the answer. I don't believe you will be able to make it work.

It won't be too long before you start looking at him like a brother or a roommate that you share a bed with. I don't believe you can make that spark happen if it isn't already there.

Wish I had better news.

Exactly.. if the desire isn't there now.. its never going to be there.

After three months it won't be there if it isn't now.