OK so maybe my life doesn't depend on the answer to my question.

I'm 14 and I seem to be attract in the male spicies , it's not that I'm not attractive(shallow) but starting at high school is very nervraking .all the girls seem to just ask a guy out simple but with me I have to know the person to get a relationship.but by the time I know the guy we are too 'friends' to date . How do I attract guys without being easy?

Not fair saying your life depends on it in the title.
You know the story about crying wolf, right?
You have nothing to worry about. Your premise that guys will think of you as just friends because you wait before dating is just all wrong. Maybe that has happened to you once or twice in your young life, but it won't forever. You are doing everything RIGHT. The ones who jump into quick dating are going to be the ones who are all bitter and sour by the time they are 20. So keep making those friends, which are worth more than gold.

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Originally Posted by joypulv

Not fair saying your life depends on it in the title.
You know the story about crying wolf, right?
You have nothing to worry about. Your premise that guys will think of you as just friends because you wait before dating is just all wrong. Maybe that has happened to you once or twice in your young life, but it won't forever. You are doing everything RIGHT. The ones who jump into quick dating are going to be the ones who are all bitter and sour by the time they are 20. So keep making those friends, which are worth more than gold.

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Thanks,but the friends situation has been going on all my life (primary-high school) but thanks very much this will help

I was a tomboy. Priscilla and I were the only two girls the boys would allow on their teams at recess time. The same story went on into my teens. I always had more guy friends than girl friends. I could talk with a guy about anything -- cars, chicks, dogs, bicycles, engines, crops and cows (most were dairy farmers' sons), sports. Not so much with girls (hair styles, nails, clothes, *ick*). That paid off big time later when I started to date. I never sat home dateless on weekends.

Thank u .this has opened my eyes to a new perspective