I had a thing with this guy and he is 17 and I am 15. He asked me out several times but I just wasn't ready for a relationship. Things didn't end on a very good note but we started talking again and I like him so much and I want tot be with him. He is giving me mixed feelings. He tells me that he wants to do sexual things with me but he doesn't know if he wants to date. But there is something about him that I just can't get over. Do I try to make things better or do I quit? And why can't I just let go of him?

How do you think you can make things better with someone who says they just want sex?
Leave him alone. He will hit it and run.

You don't see that he's using you for sex or you do see it and don't care.

Depending on what "sex things" he wants to do (he's not very subtle), you are 15 and he could end up in jail.

The guy sounds like a creep,if the only reason he is attracted to u is through sex then he's not worth dating.if your not ready then your not ready and that's that

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Originally Posted by sgree175

the guy sounds like a creep,if the only reason he is attracted to u is through sex then he's not worth dating.if your not ready then your not ready and thats that

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Even if she IS ready - she's underage. Being ready and being legal are two different things.