hi,
I'm new to this forum and I wuld really use your help please..
OK so I have been wrkn with this girl fr about an year and she's really cute talks a lot and I love listening to random stuff she says. From my point of view v get along well as far as ven v are together and v are friends at this point..

but there's this another boy she hangs out with.. hes got too much money and many cars.and he likes her for sure because ven he sees her with me he goes crazy and gets very angry .but ven people say to her if he's her BF she says no... so I take that into consideration.. but I don't know why I think she's lying...

ill narrate an incident ven I was dropin her home and then this other guy passd us in his car,she snappd.. she was like what is he doing here at this time,she said he might be piking up my sister.. my sister uses him because she knows he likes me so much.. she snappd and went frm happy to sad...

OK so we have kissd and made out as well but v hadn't slept.. she wanted a few favors from me and she removed her shirt and I could not resist... she is a nice girl but she has negatives as well.. she keeps on telling me that the other boy treats her so badly but then also she hangs out with him..

she only texts me when she need something to b done.. but saying that she reply's back to my text if I do any to her.. not instantly but in an hour or so..

I want to give her space.. I don't want to rush with things... she said to me,I'm cute but have no idea if she meant it..

I wake up early morning to drop her to wrk and then the other guy piks her up when she finishes..

I askd her if she would like to go out on a dinner as date

she said " v can definitely go out for dinner sometime,but DATE? "

Guys please help me... do I try or leave it.. cause the more time I spend with her the more I want..

THANKS HEAPS

Mate she obviously has issues and take it from me girls be crazy.u sound like a really sweet and caring guy and any girl would be lucky to date u.It sounds like your being used ,it really seems doesn't care much for u even though u sound really sweet .I need a boy like u,one that cares enough to write to a stranger for advice.LIVE LONG AND PROSPER.

P.S.: can u answer some of my questions .LOL

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Originally Posted by sgree175

mate she obviously has issues and take it from me girls be crazy.u sound like a really sweet and caring guy and any girl would be lucky to date u.It sounds like your being used ,it really seems doesn't care much for u even though u sound really sweet .I need a boy like u,one that cares enough to write to a stranger for advice.LIVE LONG AND PROSPER.

P.S.: can u answer some of my questions .LOL

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Thnks for your answer mate...

I hva e figured out the using part.. is there anything else I can do.. cause I relly like to be around her.. she makes me laugh..

Any other help would be much appreciated

Thnks

She is using you and hanging around her just makes you look desperate and that is not attractive.
Leave her alone. She is not the only girl out there.

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

She is using you and hanging around her just makes you look desperate and that is not attractive.
Leave her alone. She is not the only girl out there.

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Thnks For your Reply.. I guess I have to back away.. its going to be hard for me but yea.. ill manage..

Well I don't know.. the other day she askd me if I was absolutely sure that I wnt to keep droping her at wrk... so I said if you wnt me to do it I have no issues,. its d only way I see her daily as she duznot wrk with us anymore..
And then she txtd me saying its going to be the same as we ver wrkn together as you going to drop me to wrk I can c u daily.. im pretty sure she duznt mean any of it..

Hahahahahah I'm feeling like a retard...

She wants a ride to work. You are not a retard you just got caught up in the idea of this cute girl paying attention to you. But you know better now, so do better. Leave her alone. Let her get her own ride to work.

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

She wants a ride to work. You are not a retard you just got caught up in the idea of this cute girl paying attention to you. But you know better now, so do better. Leave her alone. Let her get her own ride to work.

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Thnks fr your reply.. ill gt back if something changes hehe

Things have changed a bit frm last time.. I told her that I like her.. nd she said " she has been hurt in the past and can't get into relationship at this point..bla bla bla.."
She said why cnt v b friends.. I said its going to be me whoes going to loose this battle so v have to stop.. the next thing she said to me made me angry and also made me laugh at myself
She said " are v going to hang out,are you going to drop me to work'"

Seriously how can be I so fukn dumb.. but all I fail to understnd is that hw can someone be so heartless... fuk this

Glad you realize she is bad news. Now if you will only use complete words and not text so we don't have to decipher what you're saying.

For not being in a relationship there is already too much drama, I would move on and find someone who doesn't have those issues.

Hey guys I'm back,I am so sorry I have not been able to do what I was suppose to do,but ill just ask you something else,so one day after finishing work we had a quick dinner and I told her I'm feeling horny,she said well lets go to your place,we came to my place and made out,we didn't fuk but did everything possible,I'm not a sex god but in the end she said to me it was good,after that we saw each other for a week and then next week on the same day I wanted to take her to my place but she said no,I was fine with it,I said its OK we can just hang out and watch some movie and then ill drop you home,but she didn't listen to me,and for the first time that day she told me that we are just going to be friends nothing else,I knew it was coming,so yea I was ready for it,so I told her well friends you want friends you going to get,I'm not going to drop and pik you up from work anymore only on my day offs I would be able to and that too if I don't make any more plans,she said OK,and then for a week we didn't see each other,she tried to start a conversation but I was mean to her in a way,

Now today was my day off and I went to pick her up,I always use to hold her hands in the car before and today when I tried too she didn't,she said she duznt want too,OK but she knew it from the start that I'm into her and yet she used to hold hands and even kissed me without saying much,I rememba I once pulld her pants down to see what colour underpants she was wearing she neva used to oppose me,no matter what
But after this week of not seeing each other and I being mean to her she's really behaving like this.. I know we are not going to get anywhere but I want to know wots triggerring her to behave like this now..
Sowi for the long post I hope you will reply thanks

harsh alert
You are behaving like a rude, horny, lovesick puppy.
You deserve to be treated like that because you refuse to leave this girl alone. So just let her use you and treat you like crap.
How old are you?

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

harsh alert
You are behaving like a rude, horny, lovesick puppy.
You deserve to be treated like that because you refuse to leave this girl alone. So just let her use you and treat you like crap.
How old are you?

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Yea I have to confess about the horny part.. but I'm only horny when it comes to her.. I have no idea why.no matter how hard I try when she sits nxt to me I just can't control my hands,I need some advice on this please,and I'm not taking her to work everyday now,only on my days off,I think its fair enuf.. you can't ignore someone completely.. I might be wrong in this as well.
I'm not spending any money on her,not buying her ny dinners,and no more favours from me,just simple as friends thingi on my days off that I get once a week.
I'm 22 years old,

Having sex is not simple friend things.
You need to leave her completely alone. She is using you and you are acting childish.

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

Having sex is not simple friend things.
You need to leave her completely alone. She is using you and you are acting childish.

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That's is exactly what I said to her,friends don't have sex.. she said she gets horny as well, now I know when you say she's using me,like for the stuff she wants me to do for her and then for sex I guess.. I am not texting her anymore,and stuff,and yup I'm going to leave her alone completely for sure this time.

Thanks for your help

I hope you do. You will feel better about yourself.