Hey :) If you are just going to tell that you are not going to help me or be judgemental please don't comment... and Please don't tell me how bad sneaking out is... I just want help on how to sneak out. I never have so I don't know what you will need to help me but ill try to explain everything:)

My house: It has two stories with a basement. I am on the top floor with my parents and my 12 year old brother... who will tell on me. Then on the main floor there are two doors with one leading straight outside and the other leading to our garadge... with a loud garadge door. Then in the basement there is a big window but I don't know how to remove the screen sooo you :P

The Guy: Yes I am sneaking out with a guy but No we are not doing bad things! I promise! :) He has a car so I don't know if that helps:P

Thx for reading this! :) If you need more info then just ask! :) Please help me! :)

Sorry we are not going to help you defy your parents.

However if you tell us why you have to sneak out and what the background is, maybe we can help you convince your parents to let you out.

Like how old are you and how old the boy. Why do you have to sneak?

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Sorry we are not going to help you defy your parents.

However if you tell us why you have to sneak out and what the background is, maybe we can help you convince your parents to let you out.

Like how old are you and how old the boy. Why do you have to sneak?

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Ummm OK... We never get to see each other and I have to sneak out because I am grounded... im not a bad kid I promise :P And we are both sophmores in high school...

Why are you grounded? And for how long? What did you do?

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Why are you grounded? and for how long? What did you do?

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Im grouned because I have been late getting back home by like 5 minutes three times so I am grounded for two weeks.

Sophomore in HS and he has a car? But yes, why are you grounded, why don't you ever get to see each other. We need the full story.

Sneaking out equals bad kid, sorry, you are judged by your actions.

And if you sneak out and your parents find out, you will be grounded for life

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Sophomore in HS and he has a car? But yes, why are you grounded, why don't you ever get to see each other. We need the full story.

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Yes he does have a car because in Montana we have a graduated licence program... but anyway... We don't get to see each other because he is in football sooooo you...

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sneaking out equals bad kid, sorry, you are judged by your actions.

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You don't have to comment... and I have never done it and I don't kow if I will because I don't know how to... sooo you.

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And if you sneak out and your parents find out, you will be grounded for life

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Ya... that's why I am worried about doing it and getting caught...

Well gee whiz, so you are dating a jock. So having a limited time with him goes with the territory. But you still haven't explained why you are grounded.

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Well gee whiz, so you are dating a jock. so having a limited time with him goes with the territory. But you still haven't explained why you are grounded.

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She explained in #5 "Im grouned because i have been late getting back home by like 5 minutes three times so i am grounded for two weeks."

Parents are always so rigid about being "5 minutes" late...

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Well gee whiz, so you are dating a jock. so having a limited time with him goes with the territory. But you still haven't explained why you are grounded.

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You don't have to be mean:/ I don't even know if I am going to sneak out or not... I just didn't know if I even could. And I go to an A school and the football players arnt like that. And I am not dating him... And I'm grounded because I came home late when I was hanging out with one of my best girl friends

Ok, I'm going to continue to be mean. You need to grow up a bit. Your parents set rules, if you break those rules you have to take the consequences.

Apologize to your parents and tell them you won't be late again.

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Ok, I'm going to continue to be mean. You need to grow up a bit. Your parents set rules, if you break those rules you have to take the consequences.

Apologize to your parents and tell them you won't be late again.

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Or you could just not comment?

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She explained in #5 "Im grouned because i have been late getting back home by like 5 minutes three times so i am grounded for two weeks."

Parents are always so rigid about being "5 minutes" late....

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I know my parents are kind of strict :/ But I guess they are just looking out for me

You haven't met strict parents until you've met mine. I couldn't go to school dances, in fact. My dad (now deceased) was a Lutheran pastor and made me the shining example for the community. :)

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You haven't met strict parents until you've met mine. I couldn't go to school dances, in fact. My dad (now deceased) was a Lutheran pastor and made me the shining example for the community. :)

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Oh my goodness! I guess I am lucky! :) Thank you for helping me! :) If you couldn't go to school dances I don't need to be sneaking out:) Thank you soooo much you really made me think about it and I'm not going to... thx:)

I couldn't date alone with a guy until I was 16. My parents had to know him and his family and approve. Before that, I could go only with the church teens.

You have no idea how free you are. Their rules are basic but easy to follow and fair too.