So I've had sex but my doctor said it didn't break the hymn. I think my boyfriend was too small because I didn't feel any pleasure, I didn't bleed and it felt Like a tampon. Recently I've I've inserted markers and other round hard objects to c if it hurts. And it does. Idk Wat to do because I'm afriad to go to the doctor, is it still there or is it gone.

If you went to the doctor and asked about this, why are you afraid to go back?

Maybe your hymen is already broken from sports, etc.

In any event, you are no longer a virgin.

@wg: at the time I was 17 n I didn't want my parents to know, n I still don't. Now I'm 18 n I wasn't the sports playing child, I only did volleyball for one year.

It could have happened during volleyball. Why not parents know you aren't a virgin ?

@wg: they didn't even know I had a boyfriend let alone we were doing stuff. They still think I'm a virgin. I want to be a virgin for their sake but I also want to have sex.

How old are you? Are you ready to be a mother?

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How old are you? Are you ready to be a mother?

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I'm 18, I'm not ready to b a mother n I know that. Im very careful, n I've only had sex once. But that was a while ago. I don't get the whole virgin status, it has too many loop holes.

Use at least two or three kinds of protection, but remember, sex = baby.

If your parents would be disappointed to find out you aren't a virgin, think of how they will feel when you announce you are pregnant and they will be grandparents.

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Use at least two or three kinds of protection, but remember, sex = baby.

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Gud point. Never thought about that. Thanks

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. I don't get the whole virgin status, it has too many loop holes.

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First, this site doesn't not allow texting abbreviations. We type in full words and sentences here.

There are no loop holes. If there was penile insertion, even a little, then you lost your virginity. Its as simple as that.

If you had sex you are no longer a virgin, it is very simple.

As was already stated... you had sex.. you aren't a virgin now. Period... there are no loopholes, no way out, you can't go back... time to face reality.