Hi! I'm Ashleeh. I'm 20 boyfriends almost 20. We have been together for 2 and a half years. He's my first love first for everything. I'm madly in love. We have to recently had to go long distance. Almost 800 miles away from each other. I'm planning on moving down there in a few months. He has bi polar and schizophrenia. So.. But he's done this before where he got mad and ignored me for a day or so. But he's this far away. I'm a very jealous person. He is too. I kind of think he's talking or seeing someone else. Because he hardly talks to me anymore. So I asked him and he said he's not doing anything. Also he works 5pm until 12am. I use to hear from him before he started work and when he got off work. But yesterday is when I finally asked him are you Doing anything he said ash if I would never talk to you again. Because that persons here with me in the same state. For the past few weeks I've hardly heard from him. Like 25 minutes a day not hearing from him after work or anything. And today it's 7 now and I have not heard from him at all.. I tried calling and texting me no reply whatsoever. Hes done this before where I went a whole day without hearing from him. But now I'm just scared. Idk what to do...

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Originally Posted by AshyBug

Hi! I'm Ashleeh. I'm 20 boyfriends almost 20. We have been together for 2 and a half years. He's my first love first for everything. I'm madly in love. We have to recently had to go long distance. Almost 800 miles away from each other. I'm planning on moving down there in a few months. He has bi polar and schizophrenia. So.. But he's done this before where he got mad and ignored me for a day or so. But he's this far away. I'm a very jealous person. He is too. I kinda think he's talking or seeing someone else. Because he hardly talks to me anymore. So I asked him and he said he's not doing anything. Also he works 5pm until 12am. I use to hear from him before he started work and when he got off work. But yesterday is when I finally asked him are you Doing anything he said ash if I would never talk to you again. Because that persons here with me in the same state. For the past few weeks I've hardly heard from him. Like 25 minutes a day not hearing from him after work or anything. And today it's 7 now and i have not heard from him at all.. I tried calling and texting me no reply whatsoever. Hes done this before where I went a whole day without hearing from him. But now I'm just scared. Idk what to do...

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He's playing games. I would do nothing and see what he does next.

Just because I know the problems that schizophrenia can cause, including changes in behavior, what does this relationship offer you?

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

He's playing games. I would do nothing and see what he does next.

Just because I know the problems that schizophrenia can cause, including changes in behavior, what does this relationship offer you?

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Idk what to do. I don't want to lose him. :(

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Originally Posted by AshyBug

Idk what to do. I don't wanna lose him. :(

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He's so caring in person and is always there. He says he's sick Of the phone and not being able to see me and talk

I don't know what you can do - I supposed you could move "there" or he could move "here" sooner than you planned. On the other hand if he sulks when it's the phone instead of in person, his preference, what happens the first time something else doesn't go his way.

And, again, what does he offer you? Tell me about his good points, why you love him.

Is he religious about taking his medication?