So it is normal to be sore after sex. I did it for the first time two days ago and I'm still sore only when I touch though. I was wondering is it because he was rough, my first time, because we used condoms, or I wasn't lubricated ( I wasn't aroused and didn't climax btw). Am I abnormal or did this happen because of the mixture of possibilities.

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Well even though this is a different question and off date. Sex your first time is almost a guarantee for women to be sore the next day. Commonly it has to do with tearing the hymen. It does vary person to person whether your first time is more sore or not. It can vary depending on how big your guy's stuff is too. The first time I had sex I had no discomfort, but I had sex with someone smaller and I ride horses so my hymen was broken long before. The next person I had sex with though was very large though so the first time I had sex with him I was sore because my body was not used to the increased stretching.

A guy's "stuff"?

Her lips might be longer than most and thus creating discomfort as you slide in and out of her. There is an operation they can do to correct it.