Me & my new boyfriend have be together for about 10 months. We've had amazing sex plenty of times. But about 3 weeks ago I let him go down on me. Since then we've only had sex twice. Now all he wants to do is give me oral 24/7.

We've talked about it and he said he just really likes it. I told him I want sex too, all he says is okay babe. But last night again he was giving me oral in my sleep, like I woke up & he was down, it was crazy cause I just fell back to sleep.

So my question is how can I stop him from doing just oral. I want SEX. & ORAL. Help

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Originally Posted by Lovely89

Me & my new boyfriend have be together for about 10 months. We've had amazing sex plenty of times. But about 3 weeks ago i let him go down on me. Since then we've only had sex twice. Now all he wants to do is give me oral 24/7.

We've talked about it and he said he just really likes it. I told him i want sex too, all he says is okay babe. But last night again he was giving me oral in my sleep, like i woke up & he was down, it was crazy cause i just fell back to sleep.

So my question is how can i stop him from doing just oral. I want SEX. & ORAL. help

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Is he concerned about pregnancy? Any sex when you are asleep is sexual assault - you don't have a problem with him performing sex on you when you're asleep? Read the other posts. Next it will be photos of you without your knowledge.

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

Is he concerned about pregnancy? Any sex when you are asleep is sexual assault - you don't have a problem with him performing sex on you when you're asleep? Read the other posts. Next it will be photos of you without your knowledge.

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No he is not concerned about pregnancy, we have a child together already. We were together for 4 years then we took a break. Now we're back together. In those 4 years he only gave me oral once. NO its not sexual assault, because I do the same to him, sometimes that's just how we wake up each other in the morning.

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Originally Posted by kLovely89

No he is not concerned about pregnancy, we have a child together already. We were together for 4 years then we took a break. Now we're back together. In those 4 years he only gave me oral once. NO its not sexual assault, because i do the same to him, sometimes thats just how we wake up each other in the morning.

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I am telling you that legally that is sexual assault. If it's with your consent and permission, no problem, no one is going to call the Police.

If he wants another child or would accept another child then I have no idea what his problem is.

I only brought up the "oral while sleeping" issue because you mentioned it. I didn't realize it was part of the relationship and thought it was mentioned because it was a problem. Sorry if I misunderstood.

Tell him he can't have one without the other. Don't do anything to him until he has intercourse with you. I think it is ironic... Usually women won't have intercourse until you do oral. This is reversed. I think your guy might have some sexual issues inside... is he into Porn??

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Originally Posted by fmbush

Tell him he can't have one without the other. Don't do anything to him until he has intercourse with you. I think it is ironic... Usually women won't have intercourse until you do oral. This is reversed. I think your guy might have some sexual issues inside.... is he into Porn???

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You apparently (if that is your photo) are a male. As a female I believe the best way to end a relationship is to either shut off the sex OR barter - "I won't do this until you do that." "Usually women won't have sex ..." This is news to me.

These people are in a relationship. I would think they talk about other issues. Why not this one?

How do you see porn causing him to not want intercourse?

No he's not into porn. Idk what that has to do with oral sex.

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Originally Posted by kLovely89

No he's not into porn. Idk what that has to do with oral sex.

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I thought I was the only one who got confused by that one.