My boyfriend & I have been dating for a while now along time ago I found pics of his ex in his cell I was upset & I felt like if you keep pics then he still cares for her & might even love her still. He cried & said he didn't know but I don't believe that because everyone knows what pics we have in our cells. Now months pasted I found a file on his laptop of him & his ex & she so happenes to work at the same place I do. & it bothered me because it was pics of him & her & pics of other ex's , because everyone can have there secrets & memories but not on everyday objects because then that shows he still feels something I feel it's just disrespectful towards me, so we broke up but I feel like I took it to far but I don't know because we have gone threw it once this is the second time ? I need advice please & thank you, because I really do love him & I'm honest

Do you trust him? I still have pictures of a few of my exs on my phone, but that doesn't mean I don't love my boyfriend or that I want to be with my exs. They are a part of my past, and a part of who I am today so I don't want to erase them like they never happened. I've dated guys who had pictures of exs on their phones, but I had to go off how they treated me. If they lie to me and I feel I can't trust them then they have to go. With out trust there is no love.

Love always leave to be with their ex's I don't know what to do anymore he said we would talk in person & to not talk to Neww people because that would detract was from each other but yet this is what he does 2 hours later ? I need advice

I posted recently about my boyfriend keeping pics of ex's in his cell & laptop. We talked it out now he said he wants time but I'm very smart I always know what's going on he just now became friends with the ex I found pics of the first months. I feel like he asked for time because I have a feeling he loves he not me. It hurts but this had happened to me already 3 times the people I care & love always leave to be with their ex's I don't know what to do anymore he said we would talk in person & to not talk to Neww people because that would detract was from each other but yet this is what he does 2 hours later ? I need advice

I have pictures of my ex husband on my phone and on my computer. He is my daughter's father. I have no desire to go back there.
Now in your case. How long have you two been dating and how long after his break up with her did he start dating you?
It could be all this fuss about his ex has put her back in his mind.
Give him his break and be done with it.

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I have pictures of my ex husband on my phone and on my computer. He is my daughter's father. I have no desire to go back there.
Now in your case. how long have you two been dating and how long after his break up with her did he start dating you?
It could be all this fuss about his ex has put her back in his mind.
Give him his break and be done with it.

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I really think your right the whole thing about me finding the pics put her back in his mind. That's why he wanted to talk in person after that he added her again on fb I realized it this morning. So now I feel like I shouldn't even see him so we can talk about it there's nothing to talk after he adds her again. I haven't txtd him I feel like your right I'll just be done with it. Even though I'm an honest person & I really do love him. It's better that we just leave it & we've been dating for 9 months seeing each other every single day we use to work together so we still hanged out after work, & on our days of we always hanged out all day & txtd since the morning until midnight so it feels like more time then we actually been together.

I need help I want him back I acted like I didn't care when he tried getting back together because of when insawnhe added his ex girlfriend again, but now I miss him a lot :(