I am a victim of my daughtr never gave me respect, I spoiled her by giving her the best, buying her expensive toys, good brand clothes, things I never had, I gave her even cars,, now her 39 and me 72 years old she tells me I am not welcome in her house, zhe doesn't want me or a relation with her nor my grandchildren, she doesn't care or do anything for me, she has always mistreated me verbally, she has hit me,, since she was in her teens, I was divorced and her fathr never helped me with her, he divorce me, he married me only to get immigrated and I helped him where he is now,, my daughter abuses me, she never wants me around, I will leave her alone and hv decided even to forget she exists because if her abusiveness,, I think she is bipolar or something I am old, anf I can have a stroke or something, so I decided to leave her alone fir good ir sge will kill me

I'm sorry that your daughter doesn't respect you or want you in her house, but you are not a victim. You are free to avoid her, unlike a real victim.

Many children blame one parent for the other parent leaving. There are countless reasons. You haven't asked a question, so I don't know what else to say. Predicting that her behavior will give you a stroke is not a good way to deal with her. Your plan to stay away is the best one. You raised her the best you could, she's an adult, her own person, and she has chosen this path, and there is absolutely nothing you can do about it.

When she told you you were no longer welcome in her house, and she didn't want a relationship with you, and you were no longer welcome to see your grandchildren, did she say 'why'?