Lets give this ago, maybe Ill have more help from here

I've been seen this girl for a while now and we grew really attached to each other, everything was perfect, however about 2 weeks ago she threw a tantrum for no apparent reason.

I've asked what the problem was/is and I getno response, anyway decided to let go but ever since that day she doesn't seem to call anymore send me a text message on the rare occasion, conversations seem dry, if I call then maybe she'll answer but frankly I'm get sick of it and want to just cease all contact.

I know she wants to get married soon and is been pressured by her family, figured maybe she's trying to push me into making a decision.

Anyone got any ideas or explanations :confused: :mad:

I'd just say: don't push it if she's not into it. I'd also say things can't work if both of you are not interested and participating in the work of keeping the relationship alive.

If you ask me what I would do, I'd ask her if she made up her mind for real about breaking the relationship, and if she said yes, I'd cease all contact with here right there.

Kresho

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WELL! What a situation! All I can say is this... and I'm not speaking for all females, heck, I'm not even speaking for a great margin of us... but here's my opinion, and I hope this helps the situation... you stated that this girl threw a tantrum and you let her go? Hell, you got rid of your girl for just ONE tantrum? What was the tantrum fueled by? Anyway, if you knew that she was ready to be married, why, if you are not, did you kick it with her? And trust me, some of us females would not have given your behind a second thought if you dumped us over just a tantrum... but I noticed in your question that you said you call her and her conversation is dry, and she sporadically sends a text? Well honey, it's because you got rid of her, and what's the point of talking to a man that don't want you? You dig? Just put yourself in her shoes. Dear, her pride is probably hurt, confidence broken, and most of all her feelings are probably truly crushed, hurt, shattered, etc. so in order for her to combat her feelings that still may be there, she has to act cold... my advice, if you don't want to marry her, leave her alone, YOU cease contact, and move on... kisses, the queenb