Hi all,
I am 30 year old guy unmarried. Never had sex.
I wish to remain unmarried and get rid of my sexual urges entirely. However, what ever I do should not cause permanent damage, in case I change my mind later in life
I myself do not understand what has led to the present state of my mind.
Perhaps my being the only child in my family may have something to do with it.
The more people speak to me about getting married, the more I seem to be driven away from it.
Please advice.

Sexual urges are part of your normal physiological makeup. There is nothing I know of that will entirely get rid of thes urges without permanet or negative sideeffects.

I would advise seeing your dr about this. Its not normal to want to be rid of sexual urges, they are normal, but if you are sure you do, you need to discuss options with your dr. You say you don't know what has led to your present state of mind, you should see a dr about that. Hope all is OK.

You might want to try having sex before you give it up.
Sexual urges can be great, if you are not ashamed of them.
And sex has nothing to do with marriage.
You can have whatever type of relationship you want with another person. Regardless of what other people ask you about you status. Whatever your parents had when you were growing up was theirs not yours.
Get your groove on!

I am totally against premarital sex, and that is totally out of the question
If there is no other alternative, what are the options that do have permanent sideeffectcs

You need to speak to your doctor about these feelings. All living creatures have sexual urges... it's part of being. Your doctor might need to refer you to someone to help you explore why you feel so strongly against that which makes you human.

Didi

Well you COULD have your balls removed and little bits of your brain that control sexuality taken out... though admittingly I can't think of a single doctor that'd do this.

Sorry bud, you're stuck with those for the rest of your life. Sooner or later the ABILITY will deminish, but not your urges, you're male and will have those until the day you die.

Seems a bit of a catch 22 doesn't it? You don't want to get married, but you want sex. But you don't want to have sex unless you're married... that SUCKS.

If you don't want sex, willpower is your only friend. However, like others have been saying, sex isn't so bad (even pre-marrital stuff, which I agree with and endorce fully) and it's natural. You're body is going to rebel against it just because nature dictates you reproduce.

If all else fails, eat a lot of Corn Flakes. After all, that's why they were invented :)