I love sex because sex makes me feel sexy! However, when I get turned down from my boyfriend, which I do on a regular basis, it makes me feel "not sexy" He says he just doesn't need sex that often however I am fully aware that he masturbates more often then we have sex. I am fine with him masturbating if I feel that my sexual needs are being met, but right now they are not. When I try and turn him on or talk to him about the issues he says I'm being silly. I love him we communicate better than any other relationship I have ever been in. we rarely fight and life is good except in the sexuality department. I hate to bring up my ex but he and I fought all the time. Our relationship was a mess but he told me I was sexy and beautiful all the time. He was very passionate about grabbing me and making out with me. He made me feel like I was the prettiest sexiest woman on the planet and I miss that. I feel guilty about missing that. I would even like to kiss my boyfriend more often but besides a peck on the lips every once in awhile we don't kiss unless we are having sex. He is a very private person when it comes to the bedroom he doesn't even talk to his guy friends about any of it. He rarely makes comments on how I look and when I ring it up says "you know I think your pretty" I am starting to get very self conscious and insecure about myself. How can I increase his romance and sex drive to help our relationship?

I mentioned this before to someone else with your exact problem; take him out for raw oysters.

One day I ate 4, and then hours later I was insatiable. I also didn't eat them with the intention of increasing my libido but holy smokes do they work.

History's greatest lover, Casanova, ate 50 raw oysters daily.