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  • Jun 27, 2012, 09:41 PM
    ChoclateDrop12
    First time
    Ok so I had sex 3 weeks ago. My boyfriend was so he couldn't become fully erect although his penis was mostly "in there"... it hurt at first but was mainly uncomfortable. We are planning on having sex again this weekend and he says he is gon give me all 9 hard inches! (sorry TMI)!! Anyway I'm wondering if I'll bleed this time since I didn't the first and if it'll be more painful than the first time..?
  • Jun 27, 2012, 10:08 PM
    Enigma1999
    Wow! He sounds romantic!
  • Jun 27, 2012, 10:29 PM
    cheer4life
    Umm.. well if you were a virgin the first time.. that would explain the bleeding..
    And it shouldn't HURT the second time...
    Hopefully your using protecting! Just saying!
  • Jun 27, 2012, 10:37 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    You may have some additional bleeding, but, take a tape measure to confirm that size
  • Jun 27, 2012, 10:56 PM
    joypulv
    You say you DIDN'T bleed? So why would you bleed the next time? Not everyone has her hymen bleed.
    Your boyfriend needs a little more attention to foreplay instead of this all 9" stuff, so that you don't hurt. Maybe buy a tube of KY jelly.
    Oh - and don't forget the birth control.
  • Jun 28, 2012, 02:41 AM
    kaimore
    I agree with most of these posts. Make sure there is focus on foreplay and don't be afraid to use lube. Some girls need it all the time.

    And sex hurt for me for quite a few times when I first started having it. However I think if there had been more foreplay it wouldn't have.
  • Jun 28, 2012, 03:59 AM
    afaroo
    Please tell us how old are you, Thanks

    John
  • Jun 28, 2012, 05:40 AM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Enigma1999 View Post
    Wow! He sounds romantic!


    Funniest response all week - laughing. Great foreplay. "Come over here and I'll give you 9 inches." Love it!
  • Jun 28, 2012, 05:41 AM
    JudyKayTee
    If I had a nickel for every time some man (some of them random strangers) told me he was packing 9" I'd have a lot of nickels.

    Other than that, yes, lube. Why do you care about bleeding?
  • Jun 28, 2012, 08:42 AM
    ChoclateDrop12
    I'm 19... n trust me he is evey bit of 9 inches if not close enough to being 9 inches.. that's besides the point. I was saying that since I didn't bleed the first time will I the second time seeing that he was not fully erect during round one because he (we) were extremely nervous.
  • Jun 28, 2012, 08:43 AM
    ChoclateDrop12
    And yes I was a virgin

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