What should I do if he wants more, but I don't?
I have a friend who I met online and we enjoy fishing together (I’ll call him mike), that is how we met, it was a on a fishing site. I told him I just wanted to be friends and nothing more, plus he is married but separated. We have fished together many times since last year. I told him I have a hunting friend who I've slept with (I’ll call him Dan), and I even gave him his name. Mike is a very peevish guy and always directs sexual comments to me while we are fishing.
One day we both got drunk and ended up having sex, it started to become a regular thing when fishing. I haven't seen Dan since December last year since he has been busy, and our thing is hunting. Dan has a girlfriend. Dan called me the other day and wanted to go hunting and camping. He has taken me on many fun hunting trips and is a very nice guy. They both are very nice guys, but all I want is just to be friends and enjoy the hobbies I love.
I have spent almost every weekend with Mike and he has developed deep feelings for me, even starting to call me hun and saying he loves me. I have told him many times not to feel that way towards me and have even ended our friendship. He says I led him on by having sex with him, also he always tried to hold my hand and he says I hold his hand (which is a lie) .He said he would try not to have feelings for me but has failed and showing, he obviously wants me, and I am sad because he is a good friend and I am not ready for a relationship.
Dan and I have decided to go camping and hunting in 2 weeks, I just don't know if I should tell Mike about this or lie to him and say I’m going with a girlfriend. I am not Mike's Girlfriend and I shouldn't have to lie and it worries me because I don’t want to lose a friend but I feel he is doing this to himself, when I clearly told him what I wanted. I need advice. Thanks.
